Wednesday, June 22, 2011
A Commitment to Obey
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Should I go, should I stay...
Bear in mind, this decision can make or mar things for all involved...
But if it makes things... it gonna be rewarding...
Should it mar things... Irreparable...
Should I go, should I stay... should just hold to the info till...
Monday, June 20, 2011
TODAY I WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE by Max Lucado
I will be grateful for the twenty-four hours that are before me. Time is a precious commodity. I refuse to allow what little time I have to be contaminated by self-pity, anxiety, or boredom. I will face this day with the joy of a child and the courage of a giant. I will drink each minute as though it is my last. When tomorrow comes, today will be gone forever. While it is here, I will use it for loving and giving. Today I will make a difference.
I will not let past failures haunt me. Even though my life is scarred with mistakes, I refuse to rummage through my trash heap of failures. I will admit them. I will correct them. I will press on. Victoriously. No failure is fatal. It’s OK to stumble… . I will get up. It’s OK to fail… . I will rise again. Today I will make a difference.
I will spend time with those I love. My spouse, my children, my family. A man can own the world but be poor for the lack of love. A man can own nothing and yet be wealthy in relationships. Today I will spend at least five minutes with the significant people in my world. Five quality minutes of talking or hugging or thanking or listening. Five undiluted minutes with my mate, children, and friends.
Today I will make a difference.
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From Shaped by God (original title: On the Anvil)
Copyright (Tyndale House, 1985, 2002) Max Lucado
http://www.maxlucado.net/_product_30305/Shaped_By_God_(Gift_Edition)
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Thursday, June 16, 2011
Last night, I found another reason to be grateful to God...
Talk about blood; men, human beings blood really stinks... It stinks real badly; all I could eat last night was a can of yoghourt and Bigi Sausage... I was almost a mess most of the night... I see blood nearly every three months when I go for blood donation as I am a Safe Blood Donor, that's my blood, given voluntarily in a comfortable environment among friends and family...
I thank God for making available at that time or this woman would have died bleeding and screaming as by the time we got to the Hospital, she was so weak, you'd ever to strain your ear to hear her.
As I got off the bus and walked by home, it occurred to me that the only time I've had to report to hospital was when I go for blood donation, and since I get a mini medical check before the donation, I never had to go to hospitals for anything else since over 3 years now...
For someone that enjoys weaving words together, I finding it hard to believe this is me, writing this less than articulate note...
But I am grateful, last week I was chatting with a doctor friend of mine and he went offline for a long while. Just as I was about complaining to him that he abandoned me, he told me that he had gone to treat an accident victim... So when it happened yesterday and as I rode with her to the hospital I couldn't help remembering Ay... Was going to tell him I wouldn't complain again if he abandons my message, it's just a message (except of course, it's not to attend to a patient.)
...sigh...
I'm ok. I'll check on her on Saturday when I go for blood donation. That reminds me, this is to remind you all of the Blood Donation Exercise coming up on Saturday @10A.M. Lagos State College of Medicine, Ikeja (General Hospital.) Venue: Blood Donor Clinic opposite the Accident/Surgical Emergency... Come and bring someone with one.
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Suicide
Thursday, June 9, 2011
THE POWER OF LOVE
I read this today, though it had been shared on our yahoogroup since February and I thought I should share it. Especially since I'm yet to be done with my next post... Please enjoy and don't forget to share too...
A long time ago in China , a girl named Li-Li got married and went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all. Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-law's habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly.
Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even worse was that, according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li's poor husband great distress.
Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law's bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it! Li-Li went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs. She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.
Mr. Huang thought for awhile, and finally said, 'Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you.'
Li-Li said, 'Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do.' Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs. He told Li-Li, 'You can't use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious. Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving. Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspects you when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. 'Don't argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen.' Li-Li was so happy. She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law. Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother.
After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with. The mother-in-law's attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in-law one could ever find. Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter. Li-Li's husband was very happy to see what was happening.
One day, Li-Li came to see Mr.. Huang and asked for his help again She said, 'Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She's changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her.'
Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. 'Li-Li, there's nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude towards her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her.
MORAL OF THE STORY:
HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you? There is a wise Chinese saying: 'The person who loves others will also be loved in return.'
God might be trying to work in another person's life through you.
God loves you, and so do I